To one degree or another we all become “lost” at some point in our lives. The feeling of being lost in a sea of confusion, adrift and without moorings can be the result of external circumstances such as trauma, abuse, addiction and loss. It can also come from internal promptings. We may feel like we don’t belong, or that life has no meaning. It may seem as if we are disconnected from life and others. At times we may feel trapped or find ourselves without hope, courage, or dignity. We may be so bereaved that we are afraid we will never know joy or love again. Our dissatisfaction comes from an unnamed place deep inside our core, our innermost being.
Regardless of the reason we feel “lost” we have a vague notion that something is wrong. At this point we may have a profound desire to look for answers. Oftentimes we find the problem is a spiritual condition that has evolved over time. The reasons for our discontent, although valid, are not the cause. We have underlying issues that wear a thousand different masks. They all point to our soul’s longing for something more. We want a solution so we can come home to our true selves. We want to be “found,” but more importantly we want to find ourselves once again. We want meaning and purpose in our lives. Most of all, we want to be able to accept and love ourselves.